I need help please, i need help and guidance because i have nobody else for this now?

SOund kinda familer. My boyfriend blames himself for hi best friends death and his other bests friends arrest. But really if you truely love him youll stay by him... On the othheerr hand you need to think about the future and determind wether the pros out weigh the cons. Would he make a good future father with these issues? jsut question you have to ask your self